Find your model
Where do you begin?
Five questions. Two minutes. We'll tell you which of the four models fits your life right now — and how to start this month.
Question 1 of 5
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Question 1 of 5
When you think about your intellectual life right now, what feels most missing?
A
People to read and argue seriously about ideas with — I want more genuine intellectual friction in my life.
B
A single person I can think out loud with — someone who really challenges my thinking one-on-one.
C
People who will hold me to my goals — I have ambitions I am not making progress on fast enough.
D
Strategic counsel on my life — I want people who will ask the hard questions about where I am headed.
Question 2 of 5
How much time and energy are you realistically able to commit right now?
A
A few hours a month — I want something meaningful but not consuming.
B
A couple of hours every two weeks — I can invest consistently if the relationship is right.
C
Regular bi-weekly sessions — I need the accountability enough to make it a priority.
D
A significant investment once or twice a year — preparation, travel, and deep engagement.
Question 3 of 5
What kind of relationship are you most drawn to building?
A
A small group with a shared intellectual life — regular gatherings with people I respect and enjoy arguing with.
B
A deep one-on-one partnership — one person who really knows how I think and pushes me to think better.
C
A tight peer group with skin in the game — people who share their real goals and call each other out.
D
A group of trusted advisors — people with more experience and perspective who I can bring my hardest questions to.
Question 4 of 5
What does the most honest version of you most need to hear right now?
A
"Your ideas are interesting but you need people who will push back on them harder."
B
"You think best in conversation, but you do not have enough of the right conversations."
C
"You have been saying you will do this for months. You need people who will actually hold you to it."
D
"You are working hard but you have not stopped to ask whether you are working on the right things."
Question 5 of 5
If you imagine looking back in five years, which of these would you most regret not having built?
A
A sustained intellectual community — people with whom I built a real shared life of the mind.
B
A genuine thought partnership — one person who knew how I thought and helped me think better over years.
C
A group of peers who held me to my ambitions — who made it harder to settle and easier to keep going.
D
A board of trusted advisors — people who asked the questions I was too close to my own life to ask myself.